I can not believe it has been 6 months since I last posted. Why ? I have not been writing -other than for my thrice monthly writig group class assignments -but then neither have the blogs I follow of people I know. My friend Annie P hasnt written in forever -I suspect she has a secret new blog that I do not have the address to?
My missionary cousin in Dakar is home for the birth of his first grand child -you would think he would blog about that?
MY step niece in Argentina came back to the States sans husband to attend her step Dad's marriage and never blogged about that?
Only Mimi Packs Light seems to post semi -regularly.
I lay the fault at Face Book's feet. All the quick thoughts and reposts that capture my interest enough to comment on, have dealt a nasty blow to my blog. My Bad.
So I post this with the best news: an engagement for my niece Heather to her friend, Matt. She is Happy, my brother is Happy and I am Happy. I met her man for two hours before Thanksgiving 2012, He seems very nice and he treats my niece well. My Mother thinks he looks like a movie star -I think they both do! The wedding is next year. I am loosing weight as we speak. Not as fast as I want but it is coming off and considering I bought the dress a size or two smaller already .......ugh. Now she is picking the venue. I am hoping for Mendenhall Inn near Longwood Gardens.
I am with Matt on this one, pick a place and tell me when to show up. As long as she is Happy...........:)))
Saturday, July 13, 2013
Saturday, December 29, 2012
Merry Christmas 2012
I love getting together at my Sister in Laws and Brothers home for Christmas Day dinner. I traveled early this year the 2 hrs West and North to my home town. My brother invited me to attend his church on Christmas Eve with them and go afterwards to his Mother in Laws for a get together with her family. My sister in law asked me to bring my gifts so I could exchange them with my brothers family. My sister and her husband were joining us on Christmas Day for dinner and we would do their gift exchange Christmas Day. It worked out well -less confusion. This is our second year without My sister in laws Father and we miss him. We miss my Parents also, who stayed in Florida for the Holiday. Christmas Day, we had 2 little tweens that belonged to my younger nieces' gentleman friend. 8 and 7 year old girls, they were wonderful and just made my Christmas. We usually sing Christmas Carole's and even have music for the words and bells. The little girls, almost asleep on there feet, stayed for one song. JINGLE BELLS. It was wonderful full of laughter and love. I hated to see them leave for the two hour drive home. I brought a sugar free jello low fat cream cheese low sugar fruit cocktail desert. It turned out well. I was able to meet the next day for a little shopping (sales) and lunch, all in the snow. The next day meet with some HS girl friends for a last minute dinner. It was a nice visit. But now I am home and my little house is still decorated just the way I like it. Today I went back to my gym for the first time in 5days -I lost 2 lbs. Oh Thank YOU Jesus !
Merry Christmas To ALL and To ALL A Healthy NEW YEAR 2013
Merry Christmas To ALL and To ALL A Healthy NEW YEAR 2013
Thursday, December 13, 2012
Favorite Things
OHOOO I just love Christmas Pins and Scarves-well I like all scarves and pins but especially Christmas -and I only buy used or vintage and Yard Sales and Thrift stores -I get a kick out of knowing some lady passed her Christmas Pin to me to wear.
I just pulled a Christmas Tree pin out of my collection and I must never have worn it before because the clasp was on upside down and did not line up =LOL I now know why it was on sale.
OH well maybe I make it into something.
Ideas?
Friday, November 30, 2012
Christmas Letter 2012
OH my I swore I would never write another Christmas Letter and went to Alaska last year for my 60th birthday and sent a card with a picture. Everyone (except my BFF) liked it but so many asked me where was my letter? I thought no one did letters any more? Saturday Night Live does skits about people who write Christmas Letters. Then I saw this cartoon on Facebook that I loved and decided oh well why not. So here it is:
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year To ALL
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| John with his new niece |
Here I am writing another Christmas Letter. So now I am 61 and the
world may or may not end at the end of the year. I am ok with either outcome,
not that anyone asked me. Hope this year was wonderful for you. It was for my
family. My Best Friend welcomed the arrival of a new niece. My nieces Heather
and Rachel, are healthy and seem happy and have nice men on their arms and they
all have decent jobs in this economy. My brother Tom, turns 60 in 2013, he and
Karen are doing well.. My sister Deb and her Barry are also doing well. My
Father is still riding his bike back and forth to the mailbox. Mother said the
Canadian neighbors brought them Thanksgiving Dinner this year. I thought that
was hysterical –Thanksgiving is such an American Holiday. My parents are the
old ones now on their street in Florida.
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| Dad , Robin and Mother |
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| Ernie loves being retired |
During my annual Florida visit, I was able to go to Sarasota and visit
my retired friend from Penn State and experienced a drum
roll on the beach as the sun set. That was a first for me and what a HOOT.
Another first was going to Washington DC with the friends of Avalon Library
Trip and touring the Library of Congress .I could have spent the week there. It
was awesome. My college roommate Bonnie and husband Paul celebrated the
marriage of their son and invited me to be there. It was wonderful and so
beautiful. I hosted a Girl Cousin Reunion and we went on a Whale Watch off Cape
May. Weather was beautiful and we had fun ! Yes, we did see two whales playing
with some dolphins and fishing for their supper.
All the way to Alaska last year and never saw any whales. LOL
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| Toni, Deb,Kelly,Robin, Laura |
To those of you I haven’t seen this year –know that you are
in my thoughts and prayers. I hope 2013 is a Joyous one for ALL of You and Your
Families.
GOD Bless and Be Well.
Thursday, November 22, 2012
Alone on Thanksgiving By Choice
So here it is, my FAVORITE Holiday -Thanksgiving -with all good memories and I find all my good memories are tied to food. That being said, I wonder why I am having such a hard time with today?
I have resumed the healthy eating style that I must maintain for the rest of my life. I am back again on Nutra System Diabetic -already I am seeing good blood sugar control but........I am so newly on this diet plan -no my life long healthy eating plan -that I can not visit anyone today. The smells alone will make me weak in the knees and start my belly rumbling. I know some people can just take a little portion of everything. I CANNOT. Maybe some day but not this year.
I am alone -with my Thanksgiving parades and food commercials and Black Friday sales/ My other addiction -shopping. Have to turn off the TV. So I planned a DVD -checked out prior to this wonderful holiday (DVD is Emma by Jane Austen and I fear it has affected my writing voice :) . Sent my Godmother a Fall Flower arrangement and talked to her only to find out most of my cousins will not be there and the venue was moved to a second generation cousins house. Wonderful new tradition. Good thing I didn't surprise them and show up. LOL The surprise would have been on me!
The only Good thing about being alone today -is ah ...not being on the road driving. Because right about now I would have been on the road. sigh Anticipating the wonderful smells of Thanksgiving.
Then I really reproach myself for American Woman and Men are serving OUR County, away from their families and loved one -not because they have eaten to much all of their lives -but because they are SOLDIERS. How selfish am I.
I am also thinking warm thoughts for the Family's who have lost everything to the fury of the storm Sandy and the volunteers who can be around food this year and are helping to make an American Holiday less traumatic.GOD BLESS them ALL.
Ok so this Drama Queen's life will change for the better and enough of this self pity -I am so Thankful for all the Friends that would have welcomed this over-eater into their kitchens and homes today.
The worst part is I have done and keep doing this to myself . I was on this diet before and lost and gained it all back. Now it is a life long healthy eating plan.
I will be better by Christmas and my Brother and Sister in Law's Traditional Healthy Family Dinner.
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!
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| At Grandparents 1955 I was 4,the last time I was a normal weight |
I am alone -with my Thanksgiving parades and food commercials and Black Friday sales/ My other addiction -shopping. Have to turn off the TV. So I planned a DVD -checked out prior to this wonderful holiday (DVD is Emma by Jane Austen and I fear it has affected my writing voice :) . Sent my Godmother a Fall Flower arrangement and talked to her only to find out most of my cousins will not be there and the venue was moved to a second generation cousins house. Wonderful new tradition. Good thing I didn't surprise them and show up. LOL The surprise would have been on me!
The only Good thing about being alone today -is ah ...not being on the road driving. Because right about now I would have been on the road. sigh Anticipating the wonderful smells of Thanksgiving.
Then I really reproach myself for American Woman and Men are serving OUR County, away from their families and loved one -not because they have eaten to much all of their lives -but because they are SOLDIERS. How selfish am I.
I am also thinking warm thoughts for the Family's who have lost everything to the fury of the storm Sandy and the volunteers who can be around food this year and are helping to make an American Holiday less traumatic.GOD BLESS them ALL.
Ok so this Drama Queen's life will change for the better and enough of this self pity -I am so Thankful for all the Friends that would have welcomed this over-eater into their kitchens and homes today.
The worst part is I have done and keep doing this to myself . I was on this diet before and lost and gained it all back. Now it is a life long healthy eating plan.
I will be better by Christmas and my Brother and Sister in Law's Traditional Healthy Family Dinner.
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!
Monday, November 5, 2012
Trick or Treat in New Jersey -November 5th 2012
Post Hurricane Sandy -
Our Governor declared that Trick or Treat night (begging night down south) would be postponed until Monday Nov 5th. Some Parents were upset-those that didn't use the delay to explain compassion for fellow children who lost everything even their costumes.
I was not going to open my door -I am on the new way of eating thru Nutra System and I am no good around all that candy. I use to give out money -the kids seemed to dislike it and I switched to candy then I switched off the lights . I just could not be bothered. But this year -when so many of our little ones in New Jersey are so devastated -I decided to open my door and turn on my Light.
Our area had little damage -maybe some branches down -we were so lucky. But now another Nor"Easter with high winds looms over all of us-arriving in two days . Ok, I admit the pictures and the collections of EVERYTHING has left me a little sad also. I use to love Halloween
It is only 6:45 and I turned off my light no kids for the last half hour ( total 45 in all)-but the ones I had were precious -I love the way the family gets all dressed up with the kids -One young family came up and I gave a two year old and and baby in his Mothers arms the 50cent piece I handed out this year, when the Father said "I remember coming here as a kid and always getting a fifty cent piece".
Was he right ? Did I do that ? I have been here 35years so I guess that is more than enough time for him to grow up with his own kids.
It made me smile !!!
Saturday, October 6, 2012
Trip to the Library of Congress
When I asked people if they wanted to go on the great price day trip I found to the Library of Congress -some actually asked where it was? or in Washington DC? Hello do you know of another? Needless to say most said NO. Most reasons were acceptable but the ones that said "Boring" I seriously wondered why we were still friends? I love my eclectic group of friends, but as I grow older they are becoming less age appropriate. I have let some move to Facebook and added some that are more like what I want surrounding me as I walk this scarey aging path. Still I search for that 'everything friend' as I continue to do things solo and fulfill my Bucket List and journal about it in this blog.
The Friends of the Avalon Free Library (never did find out what the group was exactly) ran the bus trip to DC. It was a good price for the 3 hrs down and back in a nice clean bus. I realize at 61, I no long enjoy long trips in heavy traffic. Let someone else do the driving. It was $60.00 and I asked my parents for the money for my 61st Birthday Present . They were delighted. They enjoy giving us money for our presents but feel hurt if we don't share the joy of what we purchased with them. Fifteen years ago my Mother would have joined me. I learned about the trip from a new member of the Avalon Free Library Writing Group.
I was the first one at the parking lot. But a few early birds soon arrived, then all came at once and we watched for the bus. I went to some of the cars and introduced myself, but none were the leaders. Later I found out most were Avalon resident snow birds and this was the last trip before most went south for the winter. It was a nice group but only about 23 people, so we all spread out in the Senior Travel Bus. it was nice I sat up front in my own seat. We had two co leaders. it was their first time leading a group and they did a wonderful job.
Of course I forgot my hiking stick -which is usually in the way and hates going though metal detectors. The bus left us off at the bottom of Capitol Hill (where the Inauguration Platform is being built) we then had to walk up the hill past the Capitol further up to the Library of Congress. All the bus group walked except me, I opted for the shuttle bus, it was just to far and steep to start the day without knowing how much I would need to walk. Inside we started the tour with an excellent movie (the screen could have been a little higher because all the benches we the same level).
The tour leader was so knowledgeable I was in awe, but I noticed right away that the steps were everywhere. She walked with a cane, so we rode the elevator that was working that day. I was grateful, this was a standing and walking tour. She has a sort of voice amplifier but it was still difficult to hear her. I asked if their were headphones that we could rent and do the tour ourselves (I wanted to stay the whole time in the Library) she said no but they had an application you could download to your phone and use your own headphones. sigh I don't have that kind of phone. So I went to the Thomas Jefferson collection under glass and then followed the group thru the tunnel to the Capitol.
We all walked the tunnel to the cafeteria in the basement of the Capitol ( it was just ok) Unfortunately, we had to walk down stairs. A few of the group reminded me to hold on, the white marble steps had not delineation at the ends and none between the last step and the white floor. I was very careful and should have taken the escalator and elevator. Right in front of me , a woman from our group slipped and fell and hit her head on the floor, cracked her head and had to go to the hospital for stitches. If I never see blood on a marble floor again, it will be too soon. Wow that shook me up.
After lunch we (now about 13 -other had wandered off or ridden in the ambulance or just to shook up to go on) took a tour of the Capitol. This time we all had headphones keyed to our tour guide. It was sooooo but better, The volume of visitors and group going thru on a Tuesday was staggering and yes I did the elevators at all times. It was very well organized. I took some pictures, went to the gift shop, bought two pens as gifts and then rode the shuttle back down the hill. Yes, I should have walked but I didn't.
The long bus trip home was uneventful, we stopped at a rest area for half an hour and I ate the healthy lunch I had packed for dinner -it worked out fine. We were back but 8. The woman and her sister that fell apparently was doing fine after some stitches and her daughter was coming to get them and bringing them to her house in the area.
I had a wonderful time and could do the same trip every year -I just would like to spend a couple of days in DC -the bus ride was long.
The Friends of the Avalon Free Library (never did find out what the group was exactly) ran the bus trip to DC. It was a good price for the 3 hrs down and back in a nice clean bus. I realize at 61, I no long enjoy long trips in heavy traffic. Let someone else do the driving. It was $60.00 and I asked my parents for the money for my 61st Birthday Present . They were delighted. They enjoy giving us money for our presents but feel hurt if we don't share the joy of what we purchased with them. Fifteen years ago my Mother would have joined me. I learned about the trip from a new member of the Avalon Free Library Writing Group.
I was the first one at the parking lot. But a few early birds soon arrived, then all came at once and we watched for the bus. I went to some of the cars and introduced myself, but none were the leaders. Later I found out most were Avalon resident snow birds and this was the last trip before most went south for the winter. It was a nice group but only about 23 people, so we all spread out in the Senior Travel Bus. it was nice I sat up front in my own seat. We had two co leaders. it was their first time leading a group and they did a wonderful job.
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| The Bus Group and leaders walking up Capitol Hill. |
| Library of Congress Art |
We all walked the tunnel to the cafeteria in the basement of the Capitol ( it was just ok) Unfortunately, we had to walk down stairs. A few of the group reminded me to hold on, the white marble steps had not delineation at the ends and none between the last step and the white floor. I was very careful and should have taken the escalator and elevator. Right in front of me , a woman from our group slipped and fell and hit her head on the floor, cracked her head and had to go to the hospital for stitches. If I never see blood on a marble floor again, it will be too soon. Wow that shook me up.
| The Capitol from the top of the Library of Congress/ Thomas Jefferson Building |
The long bus trip home was uneventful, we stopped at a rest area for half an hour and I ate the healthy lunch I had packed for dinner -it worked out fine. We were back but 8. The woman and her sister that fell apparently was doing fine after some stitches and her daughter was coming to get them and bringing them to her house in the area.
| The Free Shuttle back to the Bus |
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